Events

DnBDSM – Vancouver

Saturday September 19th, 2026

Private location with a warehouse and Dungeon. 
Kick ass soundsystem, a good variety of DnB
Highly vetted guestlist

Some of the workshops I’ve offered in person and online.
Please get in touch if you’re interested in me hosting one at your event or home.

Cultivating Intimacy

Explore your bridges and blocks to intimacy.

Join our dive into intimate connection, its challenges, questions, lessons and rewards.
We will explore how intimacy feels and looks for us, refining how to communicate our desires and boundaries and give and receive invitations and rejection with kindness, consideration and respect.

Facing Fear

Fear can be a powerful motivator, a debilitating paralyzer, an avoidance excuse, a healthy warning sign, and any combination of these or more.

This workshop will help us determine when fear is serving us in a way we want it to and when it isn’t. We will create questions to help us identify how to face our fear.

Managing Jealousy: How to feel all the feels and remain in integrity

Jealousy can feel scary, it can remind us of our insecurities and trigger anxiety. It can cause us to demand things of our partners, to cast blame and make ultimatums.

None of these are desirable and yet is often what comes to mind when we hear someone say they’re jealous.

Jealousy can also help us understand ourselves more, to uncover unmet needs and create strategies to get them met, without the dependence of another.

Jealousy can encourage us to feel the feelings we may otherwise repress, to explore our sadness and our stories about abandonment.

Jealousy may help us get clear on feelings of love and attachment to another, and teach us to love without the archaic concept of ownership.

Getting In Touch with Emotions

With the help of great communication tools, support and empathic listeners, sharing our feelings *should* be easy…….

But what if we’re not used to talking about them?

What if trauma, neuro divergences and/our cultural differences get in the way of knowing how we feel?

What happens when we feel intensely but can’t put words to what we are feeling?

This workshop will explore ways to get in touch and in tune with our bodies to help identify and express what we’re feeling. We will learn tricks and tips to understand our emotions and better share them with compassion for ourselves and others.

Connection and Camaraderie

A workshop style meetup

Exploring options for socialization, intimacy and community building, we will share resources, ideas, fears and challenges.

We will discuss ways to offer and ask for support, how to set boundaries around our offerings and accept no as an answer to our requests.
We will hear each other and hold space for each other.

Through connection we grow.